Still at home

Neil’s condition has deteriorated over the course of the day and he is now on an I.V. for his medications as he can no longer swallow them and is receiving subcutaneous fluids.

He is still at home.

48 Responses to “Still at home”

  • Thinking of you all tonight,
    All my love

  • All of our love to you all.


  • Jean Haley (Lindsey Fear's Mum)

    I’ve been reading your blog ever since Lindsey told me of your situation. I remember you as a child when you were at school with Lindsey and can’t imagine what you all are going through at this time! I will remember you in my prayers especially tonight,as I have been doing over the past few weeks. Love Jean Haley

  • We are all thinking of you lou,
    Love you all loads.

  • Wishing you all strength and love – desperately sorry to hear this news.

  • Louise,

    I forgot to thank you for taking the time to let us know what has been happening today – we feel such a part of your lives, though we do not know you personally. However, I know that you have much to contend with, so the fact that you took the time means all the more. Please let Neil know that we are all sending positive energy his way, also to you, Oscar, and your extended family and friends.

  • There are no words. Just want you to know our thoughts and prayers are with you. Take care, love Kathy x

  • Dear Neil,
    I was forwarded your story through facebook and have been reading your excerpts. I want you to know that I witnessed strength and courage daily as a U.S. Navy pilot. My sailors can’t hold a light to your courage mate. I hope these words give you a reason to smile and wish God’s grace upon you. You have a beautiful family.
    Manuel Tatavak

  • Dear Louise, Neil and Oscar.
    I wish for all of you and hope you all find the strength and courage to cope with the near future.
    Love and best wishes Neil.

  • I am so sorry to hear that louise, my thoughts are with you in these dark moments, cuddle your little boy, it will help you keep sane…God Bless

  • Dear Louise,

    Thinking of you, Oscar and of course Neil, always.
    I am lost for words to be honest, I just hope that today is comfortable and peaceful for Neil.

    You are one amazing young lady.

    Much love, Lula, Rick & boys x

  • Thanks for taking the time to let us know louise, we’re thinking of you all xxx

  • Hi Neil, Louise and Oscar

    You are so generous to share your thoughts with us. There are so many of us out there just wanting to say the right thing and wishing you all our very best thoughts.

    Love Sarah, Donald, Sophie, George and Henry xxxxx

  • Louise, just wanted to let you know that we are thinking of you all, all the time.

    Take care.

    Love Andy and Family xxxxx

  • Keep battling big fella. Everybody, and I mean everybody, is with you. Get em to plug in the JD, that will help. Aunty P and me will see you Wednesday.

    Big hugs:- Uncle Mel (Sorry small hugs)

  • lindsey fear (Haley)

    our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. try keep strong. wish i could give you all a big hug right now. love to all the family,
    lindsey, andy megan and jack xxxxxxxxx

  • Dear Louise, I can’t even start to imagine what you must be going through but you are an amazing lady and I’m so glad Neil found you to be with him on this nightmare of a journey. Stay strong and take care, Sue x

  • I am thinking of yous all x

  • My thoughts are with you all. You are a remarkable couple, god bless xx

  • Hiya all,
    Thank you so much for the typing Louise i was thinking about you all last night.
    You are all in my prayers.
    God bless
    Lou mc

  • Kate Beddow (Katherine Smith)

    My thoughts are still with you all. Stay strong mate x

    Love and prayers,
    Kate x

  • Aunty Pau's & Uncle Mel

    Just to let you know we are all thinking about you
    Much love

    Aunty Pau’s & Uncle Mel

  • Louise,

    Our thoughts are with you right now, hope things level out and become a little more comfortable. Please give Neil & Ozpants a big hug from me and Al.

    Take care mate.
    Rick x

  • Thinking about you every waking hour!
    Liz (Auntie!) xxx

  • we are all thinking of you up here…every minute of the day.


  • Auntie Margaret (ex Smith)

    My thoughts and prayers are with you all. xxxx

  • My sincere thoughts are with you Louise, keep strong and give him a hug from me. Lots of love

    Jon x

  • victoria holdsworth

    Hi Louise, sending you all massive amounts of love and peace
    Give Neil a kiss from me and Oscar a huge snuggle.

    My thoughts are with you, Oscar, Neil, Matthew and Lynne.

    Im heartbroken and lost for words.

    V x

  • Neil, I wish I was there with you. I could never have your strength. I’m thinking of you every moment.

    all my love


  • Dear Neil and Louise, My thoughts and love stay with you. You expressed so beautifully the meaning of a hug in your blog which caught my breath and made me smile through tears. So if I may can I send you both and wee Oscar a gentle and very warm embrace – a hug in fact. love Angela x

  • Thinking of you all the time.

    All our love,

    Morag and Taf xxxxx

  • thinking of you all x

  • Am so sorry to hear that Neil’s condition has deteriorated :o( Know our thoughts and love are with you all

    Di and Auntie Maud xxxxx

  • Louise,

    Thanks for taking the time to let us all know what’s going on.

    I have been thinking of you constantly all day.

    Hugs, kisses and lots and lots of love to you, Neil and Oscar.

    Rachael x

  • Neil and Louise, every minute seems somehow more precious, every friendship and even casual acquaintance worth more, for having known you. Stay strong. We love you, and wish we could be with you.

    Love, light and peace,


  • Mike and I have been thinking about you all day and send you all our love xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

  • Thinking of you at this terrible time
    God bless you all


  • Dear Neil and Louise, Our thoughts and love are with your family.

  • Neil, Lou & Oscar

    It goes without saying that our thoughts and love are always with you. You are the bravest family we’ve ever met and only wish we could do more to support you through this. We will be here whatever you need.

    Lots of virtual loving!!
    Joe & Paul – altho he has no idea what I’ve written!!!

  • Louise & Neil, Thinking of you all constantly, your love and devotion to each other is out of this world. Thank you for sharing your moments with us. May you sleep well tonight darlings. Everyone is with you and share your emotions for sure. With all my love, kiss to you both and Oscar…….With Love Caroline oxoxoxo

  • Neil and Louise, I’ve been meaning to leave a comment on this blog for ages and am sorry it’s taken so long. I’m a friend of Sara’s and just wanted to say how moving I’ve found this blog and how strong and amazing you all are, to want to help others through your own pain. I know Sara and Douglas are thinking about you all the time.
    Kirsten x

  • Thinking of you all.

    love Ann, Peter, Eleanor and Daniel

  • Hoping you are comfortable and restful as can be, and still have some courage to help you through this dreadful time of late.
    Sending love and hugs to you all, from Danny xxx

  • My thought are with you all, keep your strength, much love to you all.

  • Hi Cus

    Always thinking about the great times we’ve shared and the more recent ones which I will always embrace, thinking about you and extending all my love and comfort to you all. Cousin Ade xxxxxxx

  • My thoughts are with you all.

  • There are no words that suffice

    Our thoughts and love are with you


    B&J xxxx

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